About Satya Tremaine

Most of my life felt like I wasn’t really living it.

Even though I’ve been married, had children, run a business, and had a small group of friends… everything I did felt disconnected from any real emotional connection.

I didn’t know why this was happening. And because I didn’t understand it, I had no idea there was anything I could do about it.

In 2017, I reached a point where I knew I had to change something.

I was a single mum, barely coping with the demands of a young family.
But, like with most things in my life, I almost never asked for support.

I had immense low self-esteem.
I had become a perfectionist just to survive.
I couldn’t bear the idea of being seen as “weak.”

I didn’t know I was allowed to:

  • ask for help

  • have needs

  • have limits

I just battled on, silently.

When I did ask for help, it was usually in desperation — after I’d reached breaking point. Often, it came out through alcohol and blame. I was exhausted. I wanted to be rescued. But that behavior only pushed people further away.

I was sexually abused when I was 11. For a long time, I believed this was the reason for everything — my numbness, disconnection, and struggle to cope. And yes, it was a significant trauma. It sent my nervous system into freeze (more on that below).

But now I see that something deeper was going on. My disconnection from self and from life began long before the abuse. I can see how it started in infancy… and in the generational trauma handed down to me.


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I made a decision. I started small — I went looking for a local meditation class.

That led me to Buddhism. I studied for 7 years and even trained to become an Ordained member of my local tradition.

Although I’ve now left that path, the teachings I received were invaluable. They opened a door. They helped me see that there was another way to live.

I learned:

  • I am not my thoughts

  • I am deeply conditioned by my past

  • Life involves suffering — but there is a way out

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Fast forward eight years, and I have been on a truly transformational healing journey.

I’ve gone from:

  • Not knowing how to be in a relationship

  • Living in constant anxiety and self-doubt

  • Carrying autoimmune illness, depression, and loneliness

  • Running on survival mode

  • Feeling small, numb, and shut down

To now.

  • Feeling deep love and compassion for myself

  • Healing my inner child

  • Building beautiful, honest relationships

  • Finding joy and meaning in my life

  • Expanding into new possibilities as I grow more intimate with myself

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Healing is possible

It takes commitment. It takes dedication.
But the result? You get yourself back. You get your life back.

And you no longer have to walk the path alone.

Tools that helped me heal

Every practice I use — breathwork, movement, meditation, nervous system work, and somatic inquiry — is something that helped me come back to life.

I don’t believe in quick fixes or spiritual bypass.
This work is about real healing, from the roots up.

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